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Wednesday, December 24th, 2025 05:46 pm
I have this new yarn project in my head that I can't get out of it. It's taking my DK (smaller sized) yarn and chaining it into fat yarn and then knitting or crocheting something with the fat yarn. I don't want to stop making minimonsters yet so I'm hoping that I cannot think of anything I really want made out of fat yarn so that the idea will go away.

My swim this morning was particularly good except the music was not. Turns out I am not only listening to my 6,000 mp3's but all mostly, so far, deleting them. Wtf was I thinking with some of this stuff?? Tomorrow's line up is way better.

I ordered two dinners - beef Wellington, crab cake, baked potato and ginger cookies and turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing, a charcuterie selection, and two gingerbread cookies. I put the turkey dinner away for tomorrow. As well as the charcuterie. I ate the beef Wellington which was waaaaay over cooked but did actually have some flavor and the crab cake which had a lovely white sauce on top. I scooped out the baked potato and added a bunch of shit to it and put it back into now 2 twice baked potatoes. I saved the cookies. Oh and I picked up some sushi in the Bistro on the way home.

Tomorrow is a buffet which means seeing people plus the menu isn't all that appealing so I'm just going to eat what I now have which, honestly, is plenty and looks all very delicious.

The cats have been asleep in the closet all damn day. They've each come out once, checked on the food situation and then gone back to sleep there, I'm considering doing a breathing check. Oh, wait, as I type this, here they come out now.

We were supposed to have a ginormous windstorm today but apparently someone canceled it. Just as well, I like my electricity.

For many years now I have wanted my Echo, to chime every 15 minutes like a clock. There have been various work around and tricks to make it happen but none have ever worked well or consistently. i ran a program on my PC for a long time but when I retired the PC, the program went, too. Then, about the time I moved in here, I found an android app that does what I want. It gives me a Big Ben Chime every 15 minutes and bongs out the hour count. I run it off and old phone and it works great but it's never been loud enough to hear throughout the apartment.

This morning I decided to look on Amazon for a small Bluetooth speaker in hopes of getting some volume. I was just starting the search when I realized that my Echo's will all Bluetooth! I have one in the center of the house that has nice volume. I paired it with the phone and it's perfect! What the fuck too me so long to figure this out???? No matter. I'm enjoying the bongs and, with the extra volume I can also have the seconds ticking. It's a lovely sound.

Oh and in other small victories. Apple TV+ let me back in and gave me 3 free months! For some reason last year they locked my account and wouldn't unlock it. I could have called but I just said fuck it instead. I guess they got a little butthurt and changed their minds. They offered 3 free months so I tried again and bingo bango, I'm back in. Til March, then we will divorce again but this time, I'll be the plaintiff.

Time now for some more Shetland.
Wednesday, December 24th, 2025 04:14 pm
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Wednesday, December 24th, 2025 07:34 am

Posted by Anonymous

by Anonymous

Raphael hasn’t engaged with music for centuries. What has he missed? What is it like catching up on the things he's missed out on?

Or, four times Raphael learns about an unfamiliar instrument, and one time he doesn’t play an instrument at all.

Words: 4263, Chapters: 5/5, Language: English

Wednesday, December 17th, 2025 10:20 am

Posted by Anonymous

by Anonymous

Vinyë and Eidora have an entirely normal holiday.

Words: 6165, Chapters: 1/1, Language: English

Wednesday, December 17th, 2025 07:14 am

Posted by Anonymous

by Anonymous

Cliopher and Conju respond to an unusual plea for help.

Words: 6397, Chapters: 1/1, Language: English

Wednesday, December 17th, 2025 07:34 am

Posted by Anonymous

by Anonymous

Aras touched Ryo's arm in exasperation, frustration creeping into his voice. "Yes, I understand perfectly well that it's dangerous for me to spend time worrying about the wrong things. And yet here we are. I have to be certain."

Words: 2462, Chapters: 1/1, Language: English

Wednesday, December 24th, 2025 02:59 pm
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Wednesday, December 24th, 2025 08:03 am
Yesterday, Noelle and I were chatting over the puzzle when John came out and asked me to come look at his computer - he couldn't get it to turn on. I told him no, that he needs to contact IT. He did not know what IT was. I told him, it's Brandon. Brandon has been to John's many times to help him. John said he didn't know a Brandon. It was pretty sad. But, no way would I touch his computer.

John was dying quickly a few months ago and put into the nursing wing. He is better now and maybe not dying tomorrow (he is 89) but he's lost many of his marbles. He still sleeps in his room in the nursing wing but spends his days in his apartment with his wife, Hazel, who is blind and does not have all of her marbles either. They have a son, Keith, who lives nearby. Before, he got sick, I used to help him with his computer. But, when he got sick, his son stepped in and stepped up and took over their finances but even so Hazel tells me they have been scammed by BECU three times now. I am sure she's not got all the facts right but clearly there are some computer/financial issues there.

John was not happy that I would not help him and I'm sorry about that but no fucking way am I putting my fingerprints on that bed of quicksand!

After he left, Noelle and I discussed it and she asked me what I would have done differently with Myrna that would have saved me from the quagmire of her family. It's a great question and I did not have answer and still don't. BUT I am getting more and more clear on what I will never do again!

Then, yesterday evening, I ran into Joan who said "I was going to come find you to ask you to change my bandage." I do not know what the wound is or how she got it handled but I assured her that NFW was I going to even get close to that. "Well, Bonny does it sometimes but Bonny's not here" Wait til Bonny gets back or call a nurse or your children. I do not do wounds. Ewww.

I want to make a sign for my door - or maybe my forehead - that says help and has a red circle with a slash over the words.

But, after all that, I came back here to my own place with my own cats and watched some good TV and knitted and wallowed in the knowledge that I do not have to go anywhere or do anything or even talk to anyone for the next few days. It was a lovely evening. I finished the book I was reading and slept like a log.

I think I will probably go swim a few laps this morning. And then my dinner will be ready for pick up about 4. And that's it for plans.

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Tuesday, December 23rd, 2025 09:36 pm

Posted by Jess Craven

From Into Action. Download and share here.

Hi, all, and happy Tuesday.

What a weird time to be celebrating the holidays, isn’t it—at least if you’re paying attention to politics? We go from gift shopping to fuming about more oil tankers being blockaded, from decorating cookies to reading Epstein documents, from delighting in sing-along Messiahs to raging over Trump’s “golden fleet.”

And so it goes.

Let’s be frank. It’s difficult to unequivocally enjoy anything right now. And we are the relatively lucky ones. For millions of immigrants living peacefully in our country this holiday season holds only fear, bitterness, and sorrow. Millions of other US residents and citizens are putting themselves in debt to buy gifts. Millions of others are worrying about next year’s healthcare bills.

Yet, as we’ve said before many times, joy and sorrow must find a way to co-exist. For me the surest way to accomplish this is to ensure that I’m taking vigorous action as often as I am able to. When I know I’m doing what I can in the face of such criminality and injustice I can allow myself to take short breaks without too much guilt. In fact I must. Respite, which is defined as “an interval of rest or relief,” is as important to our fight as is engaging in battles. For no fighter can continue on the battlefield indefinitely without breaks.

So let’s make today’s calls and take today’s actions—they’re oh so very important—and then see if we can’t get a bit of respite for ourselves, shall we?

We’re going to get through this, all. Happy holidays.

Call Your Senators (find yours here) 📲 and Call Your House Rep (find yours here) 📲

Hi, I’m a constituent calling from [zip]. My name is ______.

I’m deeply disturbed by the new Epstein documents released last night by the Justice Department. They include horrific allegations against Trump, including allegations of child rape, and evidence that there were at least ten known traffickers involved in Epstein’s circle.

A few things must happen now.

First, Kash Patel stated under oath that there were no other traffickers. He had seen these same files. He must, at the very least, be impeached or forced to resign. Again, he knowingly lied under oath. He has to go.

Pam Bondi broke the law by not releasing the full files on the date required. She also continues to run cover for Trump and his accomplices. She needs to be impeached, removed, and ultimately charged.

And Donald Trump needs to be impeached and removed at once. There is too much here to ignore. His involvement with serial sexual offender Jeffrey Epstein, the many horrifying accusations leveled against him, and his ongoing efforts to suppress this investigation are disqualifying and very likely criminal. Congress must impeach now. Thank you.

Extra Credit #1 ✅

[From —I highly recommend reading her whole post]

Last week, the Trump administration made headlines by pledging to ban gender-affirming care for transgender youth through a rulemaking process—sidestepping Congress and the legislative process entirely. The proposed rule, RIN 0938-AV87, would bar any hospital system that participates in Medicaid or Medicare from offering gender-affirming care to transgender youth, regardless of whether that care is paid for with federal funds or privately. If enacted, it would represent the most sweeping executive overreach yet by the administration in its campaign against transgender people, and appears to be advancing precisely because similar measures—though passed by the U.S. House—face steep odds in the Senate.

[The rule must first go through a 60-day public comment period.] Every comment forces the administration to justify its actions on the record, slowing the process and strengthening the case against it in court. The strongest comments are specific, grounded in facts or lived experience, make good arguments, and make clear the real harm this rule would cause.

The window to act is now. Over the next 60 days, this rule can still be challenged, delayed, and fought—if people show up and refuse to let it move forward quietly.

You can leave a public comment here. Note that public comments are just that—public—and so take steps to protect your anonymity if it is something that matters to you.

Extra Credit #2! ✅✅

More addresses for CBS!

My friends at the East Area Progressive Democrats gave me more good email addresses for CBS executives, so if you still have a copy of whatever letter you sent yesterday, please send it to them, too!

Tom Cibrowski: President & executive editor, CBS News. CibrowskiT@cbsnews.com

Stacey Benson: CFO of CBS News. BensonS@cbsnews.com

Ross Dagan: CBS exec. VP & head of news operations. DaganR@cbsnews.com

Messaging! Messaging! Messaging! 📣

While December is known as the season of giving, Trump has been raking in presents all year—from an invented “peace prize” from FIFA to a luxury jet to be used as Air Force One from the Qatari government.

But Trump doesn’t only receive—he has doled out pardons and favorable enforcement actions for his political supporters and the and corporate interests donating to his campaign, inauguration, or funds to build a ballroom where he will be able to lavish other billionaires.

This American Bridge report contains a thorough list of the biggest gifts Trump has received as well as his biggest pardons and what he got in return. It’s upsetting reading, but the source links make it a really handy document for messaging to family and friends.

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[To: all 3 reps] [H/T ] [Text SIGN PUHSFT to 50409, or to @Resistbot on Apple Messages, Messenger, Instagram, or Telegram]

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This week, President Donald J. Trump announced plans for a new “Trump class” of battleships—part of a so-called “Golden Fleet.” The proposal is militarily unserious, strategically obsolete, and almost certainly unfunded. But its true purpose appears less about national defense than political distraction.

Battleships were rendered obsolete decades ago. The U.S. Navy stopped building them after World War II, and the last American battleship was decommissioned in 1992. Modern naval warfare relies on submarines, aircraft carriers, distributed missile platforms, cyber capabilities, and allied integration—not slow, missile-vulnerable behemoths designed to look impressive on screen. Even defense experts have openly stated that this proposal is “exactly what we don’t need.”

What makes this announcement especially alarming is its timing.

At the same press appearance announcing the “Golden Fleet,” President Trump openly complained that Americans were still talking about the Epstein files. He lamented that Republicans were “very angry” about the continued release of information and images connected to Jeffrey Epstein, framing the outrage not around the crimes themselves, but around reputational harm to powerful figures.

This is not coincidence. It is diversion.

[The rest of the letter is here.]


OK, you did it again! You’re helping to save democracy! You’re amazing.

Talk soon.

Jess

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Tuesday, December 23rd, 2025 09:36 am
They just put up the Christmas Eve dinner for ordering. In the app, you select what you want and then when you want to pick it up. It's a pretty good system. And, as usual, I have spare money in my meal allowance so I ordered up two dinners! Beef Wellington and Turkey with trimmings. Plus starters and dessert. To be picked up at 4 on Wednesday. Now that's just luxury. Full on banquet with leftovers and no people to have to entertain or at least not insult. Merry Christmas to me!

Christmas day is a buffet which is fine. I'll probably eat leftovers!

No volleyball on Thursday which is also fine. I've got a real anti people attitude going on and I need some time to get over it.

Julio has not thrown up again since Sunday and seems to be fine. Maybe he just didn't like that Hills food. Both are now on the Purina prescription stuff which they do not hate. I have enough in the cupboard to get us through til the Chewy delivery arrives. And Biggie's pee is looking way better. We could be truly on the road to recovery.

The laundry is laundrying and my app says it will be done at 11. Lunch is ordered for pickup at 11:30. The Housecleaner comes at 1:30. Busy busy day!!

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Tuesday, December 23rd, 2025 10:06 pm
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Monday, December 22nd, 2025 05:10 pm
I've been low key on it, but I left Marigold (my previous employment, although technically I've had the same employment for 23 years) in November, and am looking for a new job--ideally in software engineering. The bulk of my work over the last 20 years has been backend services and daemons, but I'm pretty adaptable; I ended up with a bit of a niche at work because it was needed and I am good at it.

If you want to find my resume, it's on my minimal personal website; the html and pdf versions are here:

https://www.labcats.org/mneme/resume.html

https://www.labcats.org/mneme/resume.pdf
Monday, December 22nd, 2025 08:34 pm

Posted by Jess Craven

Hi, all, and happy Monday!

Of course nothing is exactly happy right now. Even so, it’s the holiday season, and we must find a way to experience both joy and sorrow simultaneously.

Speaking of which, last night I went with my family to see the LA Master Chorale perform the Messiah at Disney Concert Hall. Now, I’m a Messiah fan—especially after reading Every Valley, a wonderful book about the composing of the piece—but even I wasn’t prepared for the absolute magnificence of last night’s performance. I don’t know if it was the soloists, who were stellar, the choir, which was also superlative, the beauty of the setting, or the fact that it’s been an awful, awful year, but it was the best Messiah I’d ever seen. When it ended there was rapturous applause —it went on for probably five full minutes.

I think I wasn’t the only one who needed that performance very, very badly.

When you read Every Valley you learn that the libretto to The Messiah was written by a Biblical scholar who himself suffered from terrible bouts of depression. It was a tough time in the world and in England, and he grappled with how to find faith amidst terrible circumstances. That is what The Messiah is purported to be about. While I don’t pretend to understand the theological niceties—and am not religious myself—I do know that this piece of music seems to manage to embrace and soothe anyone suffering from the pains of the world—in other words, all of us.

It also reminds us not to lose heart, for in the end is “redemption,” which means different things to different people, of course, but is always better that the suffering which led to it.

I know things are very, very hard right now. Some days the news comes in so steadily and brutally that it seems impossible for so much to go wrong in a single 24-hour period.

Yet beauty, and art, and music, and communitycan bring us so much hope.

I’m going back to Disney tonight for the sing-along Messiah. I wasn’t planning on it, but it’s been that tough of a year. A double dose, I think, will do me good.

Despite the fact that more bad things will happen today, I plan to enjoy every second of it. I hope you will seek out your version of The Messiah and immerse yourself in it this holiday season. You deserve it; you need it, too. We all do.

Speaking of singing, I wrote a little holiday song called “The Twelve Days of ‘He’s Gone’” and posted it as a silly video. It’s here if you want to see it, and if you’d like the lyrics to sing with your friends and family they’re here. It brings a lot of joy to have a vision of the future, and I find this one did me a lot of good. Enjoy!

This newsletter will publish today and tomorrow, in slightly leaner form, and then go on hiatus until likely the New Year. “Extra Extra” will, of course, continue to come out, because I would never deprive you of your good news roundups.

OK, all. Sending so much love. We, like sheep, may have gone astray—and I mean as a country—but the rough places will be made plain eventually. Don’t quit before the miracle!

Call Your Senators (find yours here) 📲 and Call Your House Rep (find yours here) 📲

Hi, I’m a constituent calling from [zip]. My name is ______.

I’m calling to demand that Congress reconvene and vote to immediately impeach and remove Pam Bondi. The DOJ’s refusal to release all of the Epstein files as legally required is a crime. Bondi is knowingly breaking the law. The American people are tired of there being no consequences for lawless behavior. Impeach Bondi now. Donald Trump should be impeached and removed as well. This entire administration is corrupt and lawless beyond belief. The framers gave Congress the power to do something about that. Use it! Thank you.

Extra Credit ✅

Let’s contact CBS about their horrible decision to cancel the Cecot story on 60 Minutes last night. We can reach them at their comment page here or at their Ombudsman feedback page. We can also leave a comment on their Facebook page or DM them via their Instagram page here. If you have a lead on other ways to reach them please drop it in the comments.

I said something like:

I’m writing to express my profound disappointment and anger that CBS—or Bari Weiss, more specifically— made the decision to pull the 60 Minutes Cecot story. I’ve watched and trusted CBS News for decades, and 60 Minutes has always represented the gold standard of journalistic excellence and integrity. No more. Until I see evidence that CBS is putting unbiased coverage ahead of allegiance to a fascist administration, I will be boycotting your station as well as Paramount Plus. I’ll be writing to your advertisers, too, and letting them know that I won’t shop with them as long as they buy ad time with you.

At this fraught moment in American history we must all draw a line. CBS, sadly, has drawn the wrong one. Your reputation will likely never recover.

Grab your Wallet! 💳

Good Good Good has a great list of Eco-friendly gift ideas here! Just thought I’d share.

Win Races! 🗳

Postcards to Voters has two new campaigns in Virginia!

The January 6 special elections in Virginia are exactly the kind of low-turnout contests where postcard writers like you and your friends can change outcomes. Most voters will not even realize an election is underway as they settle back into regular routines after the winter break. That means every personal reminder you send carries out-sized weight. A few dozen votes could determine who wins in both cases. Workers, reproductive rights, public schools, civil rights, and environmental protections are all on the line.

Democrat Charlie Schmidt is running for House of Delegates to bring steady leadership and practical problem solving to Richmond.

Democrat Mike Jones is running for the State Senate. The vacancy was created when the incumbent won her election to Lt. Governor in November.

Republicans are hoping that these early January special elections will have very low voter engagement. It will be a challenge for the campaigns to get enough volunteers at this time of year and with such short notice. That is why turnout is everything here. Money and ads will not decide this race. Direct voter contact will. Your fun, friendly postcards can make a winning difference in both elections.

Getting addresses should be easy - and fast! Try one of the 3 self-service options or, if you have questions, email their amazing volunteer team!

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President Donald Trump has announced a “total and complete blockade” of U.S.-sanctioned oil tankers entering or leaving Venezuela—an escalation that constitutes economic warfare against an entire nation. The administration has paired this move with the reckless designation of the Venezuelan state as a “foreign terrorist organization,” while openly boasting of a U.S. naval armada encircling the country.

Blockades are instruments of collective punishment. They do not distinguish between a minister and a midwife, a general and a farmer. Venezuela relies on oil exports as a lifeline for food imports, medicine, energy, and regional stability. Cutting off maritime routes deliberately inflicts harm on civilians throughout Venezuela and the wider Caribbean.

History offers a clear warning. In 2019, as U.S. sanctions intensified, then–Secretary of State Mike Pompeo admitted that Venezuela’s humanitarian crisis was worsening “by the hour.” Civilian suffering was not an accident—it was the pressure mechanism. Today’s blockade doubles down on that same failed and morally indefensible strategy.

Even more alarming is the trajectory toward a land war. Naval blockades, sanctions enforcement, and “counterterror” designations are historically used to justify escalation when coercion fails. A U.S. ground invasion of Venezuela would be catastrophic: politically, morally, and strategically. Foreign land wars consistently lose public support, cost thousands of lives, destabilize entire regions, and entangle the United States in conflicts far more complex than promised. Recent history—from Iraq to Afghanistan—makes this lesson unmistakable.

Under the Constitution, only Congress has the authority to authorize war. Economic siege, naval blockades, and preparatory military deployments designed to force regime change are acts of war in all but name. If the president intends to initiate hostilities against Venezuela, he must seek explicit authorization from Congress. If he does not, Congress must act immediately to stop him.

This means enforcing the War Powers Resolution, cutting off unauthorized funding, holding public hearings, and making clear that no land war, blockade, or escalation may proceed without legislative approval. Failure to act would represent an abdication of Congress’s constitutional duty.

The United States must not normalize siege warfare, collective punishment, or executive war-making by fiat. Congress must assert its authority now—before economic warfare turns into another disastrous and unlawful land war.


OK, you did it again! You’re helping to save democracy! You’re amazing.

Talk soon.

Jess

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Monday, December 22nd, 2025 10:17 am
So, I'm reading something about an abusive relationship. So toxic, in every tiny respect. But the commenters! You've got a handful of them happily chirping things like "Oh, Abuser is trying so hard! He's really just controlling because he's worried, but look, he's trying to make Abusee happy!" and we've got another handful saying things like "I don't get why Abusee doesn't just leave. I mean, he's in public, is he scared of getting hit? In public? Like, geez."

Like... do you people know what sort of story you're even reading? Or, in the latter case, do you know anything about humans!?

Some people should not be allowed to comment on anything. WTF.

(Though, that having been said, the very first rule of running away and changing your name is never pick a fake name that has any connection to your real life. And because of this, our protagonist got kidnapped back by his abuser and his goon squad. Again. Well, the plot had to happen somehow, I guess, but still.)

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Monday, December 22nd, 2025 07:40 am
All day yesterday, Biggie was Biggie. Back to himself again. But then, Julio threw up which he never has before. And, four hours later, he did it again. FUCK. But he's been fine since then and both of them seem very normal this morning. They are breakfast, they knocked over some shit, Biggie begged for treats and now they are both napping in their usual morning nap spots.

If Julio is ever sick enough to need the vet, it had better be fast and fatal because I'll never catch him to get him into a carrier. I've done it twice - once when he was tiny and my brother was there to help. And once when we moved here and it took more than an hour of chasing him. Hopefully, this was a one off and now it's done.

In my next life, I think I'll be a linguist, particularly a dilectologist. I hope I have more precise hearing for it.

I am sure I have another bag of tofu litter in this house. And I am sure I have another bag of Halloween mellow creme pumpkins in this house and I can not find either of them. This house is not that big. There are not that many places to hide shit and I swear I've searched every nook and cranny.

I do know where my keys and sunglasses are, though.

Today I'm going to a pop up aqua aerobics class. There's a woman here who is essentially the director's secretary who is teaching it. She was initially hired here a couple of years ago as a roving employee - on the front desk, in the dining room, odd jobs. She had experience as a aqua fit teacher so it was thought she'd fill in now and again but she never did. But the fitness director is trying new things to see how she can best fill in the schedule - best for the residents and best for the fitness staff. This pop up class is testing it all - the schedule and the teacher and the residents. My friend, Martha, will be there and some others I know. Should be fun. It's not till 11.

Otherwise this week looks fairly calm. A lot of people will be gone, of course, and/or having company. Wednesday and Thursday meals will be down to one big meal each day which is fine. We have a good puzzle going and some other good ones in the queue. I have lots of TV to watch and minimonsters to knit.


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Sunday, December 21st, 2025 05:51 pm
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Sunday, December 21st, 2025 10:28 pm

Posted by Jess Craven

Posted by Karen McShell on Threads with the caption “The Weiners Circle does not play.”

Hi, all, and happy Sunday!

It’s been another difficult week, but there were a huge number of victories in it, too! It’s hard to spot the wins when the bad news is tumbling in at lightning speed, so below, as per usual on Sundays, is all the good news I could find in one long list. Read it. Delight in it. SAVOR it!

Remember, what we focus on grows. So please take the time to enjoy and appreciate every item below. Tell your friends about your favorite one. And share this list everywhere so that more people can find the hope they need to keep going.

Happy holidays, all! You are the gift that keeps on giving to me, so thanks for that. 🎁

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From America’s Voice: A Year of Solidarity: 12 Stories of Hope as Neighbors Stand Up for Immigrant Neighbors

Celebrate This! 🎉

We had another HUGE electoral overperformance in Kentucky on Tuesday! Democrat Gary Clemons won a special election in Jefferson County to fill a vacant state Senate seat. Harris won this district by 5 points; he won it by 48!!

Despite Trump’s relentless attacks, clean energy is still gaining significant ground in the US! Through November, 92% of new power capacity added to the grid in 2025 came in the form of solar, wind, or storage.

Colorado just completed construction on North America’s largest wildlife overpass.

Activists unfurled a large Epstein and Trump photo banner in front of the Capitol.

The Heritage Foundation saw two trustees resign amid fallout after president Kevin Roberts defended commentator Tucker Carlson.

The Bari Weiss Erika Kirk interview was a ratings flop.

Elise Stefanik announced she would not run for NY governor AND would not seek re-election in Congress!

A new statue honoring Barbara Rose Johns, a Black teen who fought segregation, was unveiled in the U.S. Capitol.

Less than 48 hours after the deadly attack at Sydney’s Bondi Beach that left 15 people dead, Australian authorities announced proposals for sweeping new gun laws.

A US judge ruled that Trump cannot ban lawmakers’ surprise visits to ICE facilities.

Thanks to Gov. Spencer Cox’s (R) signature, Utah just repealed a recent, highly restrictive collective bargaining ban that prevented labor unions for public sector employees like teachers, firefighters, and police officers from negotiating on behalf of their workers.

Four Republicans joined House Democrats to give Hakeem Jeffries’ discharge petition the 218 votes it needed to force a vote on the ACA extensions in January. While a three year extension will likely not succeed, this could force Republicans to pass something.

An Arizona city council voted unanimously to strike down development proposals for a $2 billion data center complex championed by former Sen. Kyrsten Sinema.

After pushback from members of Congress, a Texas judge has blocked the sale of Genesis HealthCare, a bankrupt private equity-backed nursing home chain, that would have allowed Genesis to continue to shirk accountability for alleged injuries and wrongful deaths that occurred in its facilities. 1

Just 36% of Americans approve of Trump’s handling of the economy, according to the latest NPR/PBS News/Marist poll. It's his worst mark in the six years that Marist has been asking the question.

Jared Kushner's private equity firm says it is dropping out of the group of firms that planned to back Paramount Skydance's hostile takeover bid for Warner Bros. Discovery.

Wyoming Sen. Cynthia Lummis, a Republican, is retiring from the Senate.

Dan Bongino has said he will leave his role as the FBI’s deputy director in January.

Around 30,000 animals were rescued from illegal captivity in the largest wildlife trafficking raid in history. Operation Thunder took place over one month and included law enforcement agencies like national police, customs, border security, and forestry and wildlife authorities.

Norway has stopped issuing controversial deep-sea mining licenses through at least 2029.

Michigan is raising its minimum wage by 10% starting January 1, including a raise for tipped workers.

Thousands of GoFundMe donors raised $1.5 million for the hero who disarmed a Bondi Beach attacker.

More than 20,000 people — the most in a decade — across Australia made an appointment and showed up to wait for hours to donate blood after the deadly attack on a Hanukkah celebration at Bondi Beach.

In a first for the nation, North Dakota is set to provide high-speed internet access to the entire state by 2028. (This is due to President Biden’s Infrastructure Act, by the way. Thanks, Joe Biden!)

The percentage of adults in the U.S. who say they consume alcohol fell to a record-low 54%, the lowest in nearly 90 years.

Activists threw ice into Boston harbor to protest Trump on the anniversary of the Boston Tea Party.

Sarah Palin’s bid for a new libel trial against The New York Times was rejected by a New York federal judge who also refused Palin’s request that the judge recuse himself.

The U.S. Coast Guard deleted language from its new workplace harassment policy that had downgraded the definition of swastikas and nooses from overt hate symbols to ‘potentially divisive.’

Working Families Party put out a recruitment call for candidates specifically opposed to data centers.

European leaders agreed to keep Ukraine funded for two years with a loan of 90 billion euros, or about $105 billion.

Colorado is the first U.S. state to offer additional paid neonatal care leave for families. Families in the state already receive 12 weeks of paid bonding leave, and starting Jan. 1, Colorado parents with a child in the NICU can get an additional 12 weeks of paid time off.

Pope Leo appointed a new, pro-migrant archbishop of New York, bishop Ronald Hicks, who has first-hand experience of countries from where millions have emigrated to the United States.

Instacart has agreed to refund $60 million to customers to settle allegations that the grocery shopping service engaged in deceptive marketing and billing practices.

Former CDC leaders Susan Monarez and Dr. Debra Houry have been recruited to serve as consultants to the California Department of Public Health to launch the Public Health Network Innovation Exchange (PHNIX).

The Oklahoma Supreme Court ruled that former Superintendent Ryan Walters and the Oklahoma State Board of Education violated the Open Meeting Act by approving new K-12 social studies standards promoting Christianity to public school students.

Freddy Puza was officially sworn in as mayor of Culver City, California, becoming the city’s first openly gay mayor.

National Guard troops under Trump’s command left L.A before a court’s deadline.

A federal judge has indicated she will order the Trump-Vance administration to nullify the terminations of federal employees at four federal agencies, which were implemented in clear violation of the bipartisan law that ended the longest government shutdown in U.S. history.

Jared Kushner has pulled out of a planned Trump-branded development in Belgrade after the project sparked protests and the indictment of a senior Serbian politician.

The Denver City Council rejected a contract with Colorado-based airline Key Lime Air over the company’s work helping carry out President Donald Trump’s mass-deportation efforts.

St. Pete, FL debuted a series of rainbow-colored bike racks to replace a former Pride crosswalk that were removed earlier this year due to Republican requirements.

Cincinnati approved an $8.14 million settlement with over 400 protesters who were arrested during 2020 protests over George Floyd‘s death. The settlement led to new rules for police on responding to protests and coordinating with courts during mass arrests.

Two nonprofit groups launched an ad campaign, offering legal information and confidential advice to help U.S. troops who believe they may have received unlawful orders.

Michaela Benthaus, 33-year-old German aerospace and mechatronics engineer at the European Space Agency, became the first wheelchair user to float in space.

The DNC launched The Battleground Leadership Project — a six-figure investment to recruit and train coordinated campaign directors and organizing directors in key battleground states, closing the months-long gap between when campaigns need early staff and when they can generally afford to bring them on.

The Trump administration suffered a rare defeat at the Supreme Court, as the justices turned down an emergency request to halt a lawsuit over the government’s effort to bar immigration judges from speaking publicly about their work.

A federal jury acquitted a South L.A. man who towed an ICE agent’s vehicle in downtown Los Angeles earlier this year.

The Federal Reserve quietly Trump-proofed itself by renewing appointments of regional presidents for another 5 years.

New York became the second state (after California) to restrict the most advanced artificial intelligence under legislation signed by Gov. Kathy Hochul.

In Oregon, roughly 80 Lincoln High School students marched from their downtown campus to Portland City Hall, where they gathered to chant, give speeches, and observe a moment of silence for those who’ve died in ICE custody.

Legendary pro wrestler Mick Foley announced he's done with World Wrestling Entertainment for at least three years, citing the company's close ties to Trump and the president's "incredibly cruel comments in the wake of Rob Reiner’s death."

Learning Resources, a US educational toy company, is suing the Trump administration, claiming the president’s tariffs are illegal.

Gov. Gavin Newsom announced a new state website that will track President Donald Trump’s “criminal compatriots.”

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There were countless hilarious takes on the Vanity Fair photos—this one is from the awesome creator raeshanda_lias on Instagram.

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Sunday, December 21st, 2025 06:26 pm

Damned if I know how to summarize this week. Mixed?

Embarrassingly, I managed to confuse two deliveries (see Monday) -- I think because they had the same last digit or so in their package numbers -- so I had to delete a couple of annoyed-sounding posts. Hopefully before anyone noticed. The Roamate (combo rollator/powered wheelchair) arrived less than an hour later. Karma, I guess. The device itself seems pretty good, modulo some wierd design decisions, but will take some getting used to before I can write a proper review.

On the other hand, Bronx has been becoming an absolute cuddle-bug. He likes to be picked up and carried, which can be very useful. He doesn't always settle down into my lap after that, but when he does he has a nice rumbly purr. And my medication is still being adjusted; I seem to be getting into somewhat better shape. It's still not great, but I'm not complaining.

On the gripping hand, (covered mobility scooter)Scarlet the Carlet is broken, with a circuit breaker that doesn't want to stay reset. N, G, and j managed to push her home (under a kilometer, and NL is basically flat) -- we'll call for repairs tomorrow sometime.

In the links: MIT physicists peer inside an atom’s nucleus using the fact that Radium monofluoride's electron cloud extends inside the Radium's somewhat pear-shaped nucleus. Wild. Both the technique, and the fact that that compound exists at all. At least it's nowhere near as unstable as FOOF.

The Star Gauge is fascinating. (m sent us a link on the family Discord, but it was to tumblr -- the wikipedia article is less problematic.)

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Sunday, December 21st, 2025 07:31 am
One of the things I talked to the vet about when I took Biggie in, was removing all his medication. The stuff he was taking for his bladder issues turns out wasn't working anyway so that was a no brainer. That's why he has the new food. But the other pill is one to calm him down so he won't get all anxious and eat random crap. The vet wasn't wild about stopping this but said we could try other things. She said to give him the pill every other day for a couple of weeks and then every third day, etc. So that's what I've been doing.

Now the logical, scientific part of my brain says that it will take weeks to see the effects of this.

But, my Biggie part of my brain says whoa, Nellie. Bad idea. Yesterday, he was just bouncing off the walls. He was pulling at the yarn bins, picking on Julio, opening drawers that I didn't even know he could open, knocking shit off of everywhere and pestering the life out of me. I thought, hmmmm I'm supposed to be looking for lethargy. Wonder where I could get some! And then, DOH!! his pills. So I gave him one last night and we go back to every morning today. The vet will be happy.

He did wind down for a little bit last night but when he did, it was on top of my yarn. Then Julio joined him. It was cute but really inconvenient, knitting wize.

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Today I have no required people transactions that I know about which is lovely. I'm kind of over peopled at the moment.

I think I'll go swim some laps and then come home to a lovely quiet day of no people and two, hopefully, calm cats.

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Saturday, December 20th, 2025 11:55 am
Earlier in the week, I thought Biggie was in trouble again. But, I think now, that was stress about nothing. As I type this, he and Julio are playing hide and seek which keeps turning into I'll Get You My Pretty!! And then goes back to hide and seek. Julio is hiding under the bed and Biggie just found him.

I'm tired of Christmas shit and I'm letting it get to me and that's just not acceptable.

Volleyball started out perilously. The two problem players positioned themselves in a way to ruin it for the most of us BUT then, they both played well with no crap. So go figure. It was fun even though two of my favorite players weren't there.

Elbow Coffee was pretty dreadful. BUT I had my knitting and I just kept my mouth shut. And eventually it ended. I need to invent a device that sounds an alarm once an old person has told the same story 10 times. I'd have it embedded in the building.

Bonny and I have a puzzle date at 1 pm. We keep going out there to puzzle at different times and missing each other so we set a time today.

Ooops my chicken wings for lunch are done.

More later.

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Saturday, December 20th, 2025 03:02 pm
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Friday, December 19th, 2025 09:01 pm

Posted by Jess Craven

Hi, all, and happy Friday.

It’s also the day that the Epstein files were supposed to be released.

It seems clear, however, that they won’t be, at least in their entirety. This is a heartbreaker, not just for the victims who’ve been working so hard to achieve transparency, but for all of us who’ve worked so hard to ensure this release.

It’s also a clear violation of the Epstein Files Transparency Act.

But most of all it’s another reminder that this administration doesn’t care about the law, and it doesn’t care about helping survivors. We’ve known these things forever, but each new example of this fact still stings, enrages, and depresses.

But we won’t wallow in those feelings for too long. Because the victims—and we—deserve better. Americans are united in wanting transparency on this issue; we will just have to keep working until we get it.

Meanwhile Trump has already added his name to the Kennedy Center’s facade. It took all of a day for him to do so after the board voted to allow it—even though this wasn’t the board’s decision to make. He’s quick to get things done, isn’t he? When those things benefit him?

Trump and his administration are also creeping closer to invading Venezuela. And issuing more destructive rules to hurt children. And shutting down the National Center for Atmospheric Research in Boulder, Colorado over a grudge with Governor Polis. They’re a destructive force the likes of which we have never seen in American politics—and that’s saying something.

Look. I know it’s hard to watch the worst people in the world act with what appears to be impunity. The best antidote, for me, is to keep taking action, keep looking for people to help (I’ve got a GREAT option for you below), and keep surrounding myself with people who care about democracy, the rule of law, and civility as much as I do. Trump’s administration is every bit as ugly inside as it is outside (see the Vanity Fair photos). We know it, and so do they. But one other thing we know—that they do not—is that kind of ugliness, greed, and cruelty is inherently weak; it cannot sustain itself. It is, quite literally, self-destructive.

More importantly, it will be defeated—because we will defeat it.

And when we do, Trump’s legacy will be systematically and fully dismantled. We will take all of this pent up grief and rage and work together, with a singleness of purpose never before seen, to remove his name from every building, tear down his ballroom, reverse his Executive Orders, try cabinet members who’ve broken the law, charge ICE agents with crimes, restore climate action, pass stronger protections for LGBTQ+ people, give Dreamers a path to citizenship, pass comprehensive immigration reform, pass Medicare For All, reunite separated families, pass vigorous voting rights legislation, expand the Supreme Court, strengthen our alliances, fix our trade policy, rebuild our CDC, re-fund US AID, strengthen the EPA and FEMA, expand Social Security, tax the hell out of billionaires and corporations, break up monopolies, restore civic trust, re-center morality in our politics…and more.

These are not just pipe dreams. They are achievable. Will they be difficult to accomplish? Some yes, some no. But they are all doable if we have the will. So let’s have it. We will rebuild this country out of the ashes Trump leaves behind. In fact, we will use those ashes to fertilize the growth of a new United States—one that he and his rich donors will hate, but that the majority of us will love and thrive in.

Right now the fire still burns, and it’s excruciating.

But Trump is running out of fuel. The flames are already diminishing. Soon there will be only cinders.

Then the rebuild will begin.

Not only will we erase any trace of Trump or MAGA from our national landscape, but we will create the diametric opposite of it and ensure that it’s built to last.

Don’t quit before the miracle, folks.

Now let’s get to work.

Call Your Senators (find yours here) 📲

Hi, I’m a constituent calling from [zip]. My name is ______.

I’m furious about Trump’s attempt to dismantle the National Center for Atmospheric Research in Boulder, Colorado. We all know he’s doing it to get Governor Polis to transfer Tina Peters to federal prison so he can pardon her. It’s grotesque. NCAR is one of the world’s leading Earth science research institutions—without it we will be endangered in ways too numerous to list. I’m glad that Senators Bennet and Hickenlooper are blocking the Senate funding package until this money is restored, and I’d like the Senator to support them in every way s/he can. The Senate is a powerful body. Please act like one and rein our crooked president in.

Also, if the DOJ doesn’t release the entirety of the Epstein files today please take all legal measures to ensure that they comply with the law. And I mean play hardball. This is a coverup and it can’t be tolerated. Thanks.

Call Your House Rep (find yours here) 📲

Hi, I’m a constituent calling from [zip]. My name is _______.

I’m furious about Trump’s attempt to dismantle the National Center for Atmospheric Research in Boulder, Colorado. We all know he’s doing it to get Governor Polis to transfer Tina Peters to federal prison so he can pardon her. It’s grotesque. NCAR is one of the world’s leading Earth science research institutions—without it we will be endangered in ways too numerous to list. Please ask the Congressmember to do everything s/he can to get this funding restored. Thank you.

Also, if the DOJ doesn’t release the entirety of the Epstein files today please take all legal measures to ensure that they comply with the law. And I mean play hardball. This is a coverup and it can’t be tolerated. Thanks.

Extra Credit ✅

Let’s write to DNC Chair Ken Martin and urge him to reverse his decision to not release the DNC’s 2024 autopsy report. It’s a stunningly bad decision that will hurt us badly in the long term.

His email address is MartinK@dnc.org

Sample letter:

Chair Martin,

I’m writing as a Democratic voter and volunteer to respectfully ask you to reverse your decision to not release the DNC 2024 autopsy report. How are Democrats going to learn from our mistakes if we don't have any concept of their depth and breadth? Showing fearlessness, transparency, and a willingness to admit where we’ve gone wrong is how we win voters back! Continuing to retreat from accountability is how we ensure that we keep losing them.

Thanks.

Feel free to copy and use, but better if you write your own. I sent mine!

Get Smart! 📚

Y’all I got my hands on a report about Buy Now Pay Later companies and their connection to the Trump admin and it is INSANE. Every bit of it is just gross.

I made a video about it but if you don’t want to watch it that’s fine—still read the report!

Video is here.

Report is below. If you can’t open it here’s a linked version but it’s not as pretty. This is stuff we need to know, and need to share.

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Give 💰!

My lovely friend Lindsay from Still We Rise lives in Portland and just learned of an immigrant family there who has been living in fear of ICE raids. They haven’t left their home in two months. Not for school. Not for errands. Not to see friends. Their middle and high school–aged kids are homeschooling, not because they want to, but because going outside feels unsafe.

I’m making this family our so-called Angel Tree this year. Yes, there are tens of thousands of families like theirs, but theirs is a family we know about and can reach.

Because they can’t safely leave their home, we asked them one simple question: What would help? What would bring you a little joy? With some gentle nudging they shared a wish list with us, and my hope is to clear it and deliver a true Christmas miracle for this family.

Right now, fear has shrunk their world down to four walls. Together, we can help open it back up, even just a little. We can remind them they matter. That they are seen. That they deserve joy, safety, and dignity.

If you’ve been looking for a way to make a real difference this season this is it.
Let’s wrap this family in love. Let’s show up for them. Let’s make their Christmas one filled with relief, warmth, and hope.

The wish list is here. It’s on Amazon. I boycott them, but even I will violate that boycott at times like this. There’s really no other way to do this where their address can remain anonymous.

Hope some of you can help.

Get in the Streets! 🪧

National Day Laborer’s Network is asking us to consider “adopting a corner” to help undocumented day laborers.

They’re asking that we go to our local Home Depot, where immigrant day laborers are at extreme risk of harassment and arrest. Choose a location convenient to you, where day laborers gather and commit to showing up regularly. Be present. Be consistent. Build relationships and offer protection. Remember: Solo el pueblo salva al pueblo. Only the people save the people. That has always been true—and never more than now. We can and should be standing together in the face of injustice—peacefully, powerfully, with love and care. We don’t need to feed their violence, we need to build community.

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I am writing to urge Congress to immediately intervene to stop the reported attempt to rename the John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts as the “Trump-Kennedy Center.”

Federal law is unambiguous. The building “shall be designated as the John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts,” and Congress established it as the sole national memorial to President John F. Kennedy within Washington, D.C. and its environs. Nothing in the authorizing statutes grants the Board of Trustees authority to rename or rebrand this national memorial. Only an act of Congress can change a designation set in federal law.

Joe Kennedy III, President Kennedy’s grandnephew and a former member of Congress, has publicly stated that the Kennedy Center “can no sooner be renamed than the Lincoln Memorial,” regardless of claims made by the White House or the Board. That assessment aligns with the plain text of the statute and longstanding constitutional principles regarding congressional authority over federal memorials.

Serious procedural concerns further undermine the legitimacy of this action. Despite public claims of a “unanimous” vote, at least one ex-officio board member—Representative Joyce Beatty—has stated she was muted during the meeting and prevented from voicing opposition. This raises grave questions about transparency, due process, and whether the Board acted in bad faith to evade legal scrutiny.

Allowing politically aligned appointees to unilaterally alter a congressionally established national memorial would set a dangerous precedent. It would invite future administrations to rewrite history, law, and public institutions by fiat rather than through democratic processes.

I urge you to act immediately to:
• Publicly affirm that only Congress has the authority to rename the Kennedy Center
• Initiate oversight hearings into the Board’s actions and claims
• Require a legal review by congressional counsel or GAO
• Prohibit the use of federal funds for any unauthorized signage, branding, or contracts
• Pass clarifying legislation reaffirming the Kennedy Center’s statutory name, if necessary

This is not about partisanship. It is about the rule of law, separation of powers, and protecting a national memorial created by Congress.


OK, you did it again! You’re helping to save democracy! You’re amazing.

Talk soon.

Jess

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Friday, December 19th, 2025 12:53 pm
So, how in the heck am I going to listen to all 6K of my MP3's? I mean without listening to the same ones over and over. I need a system. Oh, Gemini?!! Since I have the back up on the external drive, I got courageous. Gemini wrote me a script for creating folders and then randomly selecting songs to put in them 30 at a time. It's like having 200 30-song playlists. But I had to run the script a biscillion times because some kind of scripting limit. Finally got it all done and now I had duplicate folder names. Oh, Gemini??!!

Yep, got another script that named the folders 1-203. Now, I just copy the folder over to the player and put a 0 in front of its name so I know I've listened to that one. It's a system!! I generally replace the songs every couple of weeks when I charge the thing so I'm really good now til September of 2033 when I'm 84. I think I'm good music swim wize.

The vet, bless them, had broken packs of food so I didn't have to buy a whole case and was about to get 6 cans which will hold me over until Chewy comes through. So now they are eating again. Whew.

And someone turned on the AC outside. The other day when I went out, it was quite pleasant. No jacket needed. So I didn't even look before I left. Not smart. Plus gusty winds. The guy at the vet said that they had had their door opened by guests of wind already a couple of times this morning.
Friday, December 19th, 2025 08:49 am
Biggie is going through a stage. He's now got his hind legs on my thigh and his upper body draped across my arm while I type and is looking at me like I'm not paying him enough attention. He's eaten 2 breakfasts and peed a little and chased his treats around (they are in a little rubber fish that is hard from him to crack but he tries). Now he's just sitting here making this entry more difficult to do than is necessary.

But, why is this any different than any other day since the day he came to live with me. He should be the illustration to define High Maintenance.

Outside of watching him waiting for a sign that something is really wrong, my days, lately have been mostly spent avoiding Timber Ridge Cheer. My maternal grandmother was the sweetest woman who ever roamed the earth. In her final years, she was fairly bed ridden in a nursing home and still so sweet and kind and happy. Except around this time of year. One year, the week before Christmas, she told me "if I have to listen to one more Christmas Carol, I'm going to snap!" I feel ya, Grandma.

Oh and the only other time I heard her snap was when the dining room put broccoli on her dinner plate and it was touching the good food. We all have our limits. Even Grandma.

We did not lose electricity last night. The lights flickered once but that was it. Apparently the phone system went down - we got an email. Lots of people here have what they call 'land lines' and that's their only phone. They are the Xfinity phone service. And it is dicey on a good day. Our building wifi is not Xfinity and it was unaffected. It was the wind last night and today all is calm - it's not even raining right now.

I guess I'll go over to the vets today and buy some of the food that they don't hate. I hope they have some in stock. It doesn't look like the Chewy order will get here before about Tuesday.

I finished up the Clean Up The Google Drive - Particularly The Mp3's Project. I have all of the mp3's backed up to an external hard drive. So whew. I slapped 20 onto my player and that's what I listened to while I was swimming this morning. It was a very random mix but quite nice.

Guess it's time to get dressed and get going.

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Friday, December 19th, 2025 01:35 pm
when your boyfriend, who turned out to be a fabulously wealthy member of the magical nobility, insists on buying you an expensive ring, and not just to get at his awful family who all hate you?

Last time that happened to me, I told him, "The ring is nice, but seriously, get your shit together and stand up to your folks, or the wedding's off." And this is why I'm not married today. Fabulous wealth is all well and good, but there are limits, and realistically speaking, you probably can't murder all your inlaws.

Alas, our protagonist is going to take the next book and a half to put her foot down. I can just tell. Unlike any sensible heroine, she's going to spend all her time trying to placate those assholes instead. Honey, it's a wasted effort! If you insist on standing by your man, stand by him by booking a couples spa date - no parents allowed.

(The ring isn't even magical. It's just expensive. I mean, honestly, I would not put up with those people for a nonmagical ring, and here she is insisting that it's all too much, it's too valuable, is he sure he wants to spend what, to him, amounts to pocket change on little old her? Please.)

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Thursday, December 18th, 2025 07:44 pm
1. What is one thing about you that you hate?

2. What is one thing about you that you love?

3. If you had to change one thing about you what would it be and why?

4. What is one word that you would use to define yourself?

5. Imagine what you would look like in a perfect world...what do you look like?

Copy and paste to your own journal, then reply to this post with a link to your answers. If your journal is private or friends-only, you can post your full answers in the comments below.

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Thursday, December 18th, 2025 04:21 pm
Starting last night, Biggie has been so needy and pestering me all day. No naps. Just could not settle down. It was beginning to look like another instance of eating weird shit. Because of his bladder issues, he's been using the litter box often so I've been getting up and checking it every time. My knees are killing me.

I know he and Julio do not like the new food. And like it less with each meal. Finally this afternoon, Biggie just got up there by his plate and sat. And sat. And sat. I put out some more/fresh food and he just looked at it. Then I added some of the old stuff - the prescription stuff he got last year and they both started gobbling. I even mixed some of the hated stuff in and still gobbling. After they had had their fill, Biggie went in and pooped. It was tiny but it was a poop.

And they both went into the bedroom closet and are fast asleep. I sent a note to the vet hospital asking if the Purina was ok instead of the Royal Camin or Hills, she suggested and they replied quick as a wink, that it was fine. So. Whew. I'd still like to see a very big poop, tho. Just to be very sure.

And in other news... The power company reports as of 10 minutes ago that there are 3 active outages with 4,376 customers impacted and this is the map. I added the ME where my apartment is. I'm happy to report we have juice. Also that I am NOT taking it for granted. I have leftovers from last night for dinner and I think I'll nuke them now rather than wait and chance their being no nuke later.

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Thursday, December 18th, 2025 02:57 pm
URGENT: IMMEDIATE CALL FOR HELP, 18-December-2025

This is a duplicate of a post on Facebook. I'm trying to cast as wide a net as I can.

My friend Shannon McKinnion is stranded in Ellensburg, WA. She can't leave until the truck she has rented is loaded up with the contents of her student housing. Because of the weather in Washington state, she'll have to drive west using the Columbia Gorge (over 400 miles) to reach home instead of taking the direct route (only 125 miles), due to worsening conditions in the Cascade Mountains.

If you are in or near Ellensburg and can help Shannon and Tabi load their truck, please let me know and I'll put you in touch.

If you are in or near Tri-Cities and could offer two women and their cat an overnight refuge, please let me know and I'll put you in touch.

If you have any funds to spare to help her cover the extra costs that are accruing because of the delays, extra mileage/gas, etc, her GoFundMe is here:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-shannon-complete-her-masters

If you'd rather PayPal her directly, use @patgund

Please read, respond, forward... let's help Shannon get home safely!
Thursday, December 18th, 2025 08:51 pm

Posted by Jess Craven

From Feminist News on IG

Hi, all, and happy Thursday!

What a week. Good Lord.

I didn’t watch Trump’s speech last night—I can rarely stand to hear his voice—but I’ve read enough about it to know that it was an unmitigated disaster. From what I understand he shouted for 22 minutes about how great the economy is and, of course, how great he is. He blamed President Biden for anything wrong in the country, bragged about his mass deportation program, and sang the praises of tariffs. Talk about tone deaf!

Americans, of course, feel exactly the opposite! They hate the economy (and squarely blame Trump for it), despise his tariffs, oppose Trump’s immigration tactics, and very much dislike him. No matter. Trump lives in a narcissistic bubble in which everything he does is perfect and everything his perceived enemies do is garbage. It’s sad, petty, and infantile. But it is who he is. That’s why he announced today, for example, that he’s renaming the Kennedy Center the “Trump-Kennedy Center.” (JFK is turning in his grave.) It’s why he put immature and frankly embarrassing plaques under Obama’s and Biden’s portraits in the White House. It’s why he does pretty much anything.

It’s painful to be held hostage by an ignorant infant tyrant—a puerile, squalling, ugly, vindictive clown—but for today we are. All we can do is to continue to push back on every one of his actions, raise the volume of calls to our reps, and continue to highlight Democrats’ efforts to protect Americans from his attacks.

I know we’re all exhausted, but we must continue on. Things are shifting in our favor—just look at the discharge petition triumph yesterday! Democrats were able to bring ACA premium tax credit extensions back from the dead! That’s because they’ve got the popular wind at their backs AND because four Republicans were willing to buck Mike Johnson (and Trump) to add their names to the petition. This wouldn’t have happened without our pressure, our calls, and our relentless advocacy.

Will the vote for a clean, three-year extension pass in January? Unlikely. But will a compromise vote on something that could help Americans afford their healthcare happen? Yes. And it’ll be because of a) your hard work and b) Republicans’ shifting understanding of how much power Trump has.

OK, all. Lots of calls to make today and lots to do, so no more talk. It’s time for action!

But first, give the Gift of Knowledge! 🎁

You’ll notice that I linked to Ground News a few times above. That’s because I continue to love and use their site daily. In fact, my husband and I gave a Ground gift subscription to my sister-in-law for Christmas!

If you’re looking for a gift for the news-hungry person in your life, please consider a Ground News gift subscription! I partner with them because I believe strongly in media literacy and I think they provide it.

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Call Your Senators (find yours here) 📲

Hi, I’m a constituent calling from [zip]. My name is ______.

First, I’m furious that the House passed Marjorie Taylor Greene’s anti-trans bill yesterday. I expect the Senator to vote no. Attacks on trans youth are cowardly and cruel and I won’t support any lawmaker who participates in them.

Also, I know the House passed a bill that would take healthcare away from 100,000 Americans, while meanwhile blocking a vote on the Democrats’ discharge petition, which would have immediately extended the ACA tax credits. I expect the Senator to fight to support those tax subsidies as soon as recess is over. Americans simply can’t afford these healthcare costs. Also? We need Medicare For All. Thanks.

Call Your House Rep (find yours here) 📲

Hi, I’m a constituent calling from [zip]. My name is _______.

[Look up how your rep voted on the anti-trans bill here]

[If they supported]: I’m calling to say how appalled I am that the Congressmember voted for Marjorie Taylor Greene’s anti-trans bill yesterday. It’s a vicious, ignorant and hateful piece of legislation. I won’t support lawmakers who attack the trans community; the Congressmember has lost my vote.

[If they opposed] I’m calling to thank the Congressmember for voting no on Marjorie Taylor Greene’s anti-trans bill yesterday. I’m upset that it passed, but grateful that my lawmaker opposed it.

[Add to all]

I understand that the HHS is now saying it will revoke funding from hospitals offering gender transition care to young people. This is awful. The attacks on the trans community from the Trump administration are despicable. They must stop. Please ask the lawmaker to do everything they can to get the HHS to reverse this decision. Thanks.

Also, I want my Representative to oppose Medicare’s new AI prior authorization pilot, known as WISeR. Traditional Medicare shouldn’t adopt insurance-style denials that delay or block care for seniors.

Extra Credit ✅

If you haven’t yet heard about WISeR, Medicare’s new AI prior authorization pilot, you can read about it here. The pilot will be rolled out in Arizona, New Jersey, Ohio, Oklahoma, Texas, and Washington.

Let’s take the author’s suggestion and, if we live in one of the pilot states, call our governors. Governors don’t control Medicare policy, but they do have influence. When federal changes threaten access to care for seniors in their state, governors can raise concerns with CMS and Congress.

Suggested message:

My name is _____ and I’m a constituent from [zip.] I’m concerned about Medicare’s new AI prior authorization pilot and the risk of delayed or denied care for seniors here. I’m asking the Governor to raise these concerns with CMS and our congressional delegation.

Governor’s office phone numbers:

  • Arizona: 602-542-4331

  • New Jersey: 609-292-6000

  • Ohio: 614-466-3555

  • Oklahoma: 405-521-2342

  • Texas: 512-463-2000

  • Washington: 360-902-4111

Get Smart! 📚

Navigator Research just dropped a report covering the latest views of Trump and his administration’s actions over the last year. Great stuff!

BIG TAKEAWAYS:

  • Americans remain highly negative on the President’s economic management, with 61% disapproving of his handling of inflation and the cost of living.

  • There is a massive, 42-point, disconnect between Americans’ priorities and perceived government focus.

  • 14% of Trump voters now say they regret their vote, largely because of his handling of the economy.

Read the full report here!

Messaging! Messaging! Messaging! 📣

Defend America Action released a great fact check on Trump’s deranged speech last night. It’s got responses to all of his lies…with receipts. Please use, and please share! Again, you can find it here.

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[To: YOUR STATE REPS] [H/T] [Text SIGN PWBGRC to 50409, or to @Resistbot on Apple Messages, Messenger, Instagram, or Telegram]

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I am writing to urge you, as a state legislator, to speak out publicly and take concrete action against the Trump Department of Justice’s expanding lawsuits seeking unredacted voter registration data from the states.

The DOJ has now sued at least eighteen states—including Massachusetts and Nevada—for refusing to turn over voter rolls containing highly sensitive personal information. These demands go far beyond what is publicly available and include home addresses, dates of birth, driver’s license numbers, and partial Social Security numbers. This effort represents an unprecedented federal intrusion into state-run elections and a serious threat to voter privacy.

[The letter is a bit long. You can read the rest here.]


OK, you did it again! You’re helping to save democracy! You’re amazing.

Talk soon.

Jess

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Thursday, December 18th, 2025 10:18 am
Several months ago, I decided to have Christian (the designer) help me figure out my closet. I could call the closet designer people but Christian can do that, too, and give them better guidance or not call them and do something else. He said he'd be glad to and I told him then that I was in no hurry. Then I heard nothing.

Then I studied the space and what I want to accomplish and figured out a scheme involving the storage area and my brother and some shelves that I bought from Amazon. To be completed in January when said brother comes to visit.

Then, Christian called last night. We had a good laugh about his guilt at waiting so long and that the only reason he got around to it now is that he has a new Timber Ridge client. So he's going to meet with them on January 2 and then swing by here for lunch and a closet consult.

I didn't mention that I had a plan cause I figure this is the perfect way to vet my ideas and if they suck, then we can talk Plan B. Plus lunch with Christian is always a hoot. So no harm and maybe extra good.
Thursday, December 18th, 2025 09:31 am
Probably the big news today will be clean linens on the bed. So quiet day. We have a new puzzle going in the elbow so there may be some of that.

Biggie is still under watch. He's still peeing a little and often and he's still NOT happy with the new food. He is, however, happy with the treat switch. There are two kinds of treats available for his prescription diet. One is NOT Biggie approved but the other is fine. He seems a bit more needy than usual - needing attention from me - but also more playful with Julio than usual. So, we wait and watch. And hope that if he takes a turn it's before Friday or after Sunday.

Shetland has been a British TV series (taken from Anne Cleeves books) that's been on for a fairly long while. I tried to watch it many times but could never latch on. There's at time and place and I finally found it. I'm now enjoying the heck out of the backlog of episodes. Way more good watching for me than the endless lonely hearts Christmas movies.

Ooops Eastside Emergency and Rescue just came up the drive - lights and sirens. Some Timberidge-ion is not having a wonderful morning.

Biggie keeps hopping up on the counter to check and see if there has been any improvement in the food situation. He takes a few bites and then leaves. And then, apparently, forgets and 15 mins later, repeats. It's pretty funny to watch. At least he still has an appetite!

Guess I'll go get the bed project started and... get dressed.

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Thursday, December 18th, 2025 04:05 pm

Today I am thankful for...

  • The Unreasonable Effectiveness of Mathematics in the Natural Sciences. (See also, the Wikipedia article, Watch out for the rabbit hole -- this is a deep one.
  • Mail arriving in time (though just barely). Don't count on UK's Royal Mail being as fast and consistent as Postnl.
  • Receiving packages that I feared had gone astray. Looking deeply enough into them to realized that, in addition to failing to provide my house number on one order, I had mixed them up because their package numbers had the same last digit.
  • Nanobag and Roamate. (See above.) (I want to review the latter eventually. However, the best-laid plans, etc.)
  • Not sure how thankful to be for decade-old scratch tracks, but they deserve a listen at least.

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Wednesday, December 17th, 2025 02:00 pm
I swim to music. I had a player once that actually allowed me to download from Spotify. But, it was way too fiddly. Now I just use music from my own collection of MP3's. I've bought many of these and ripped the rest off of CD's over the years. Lots of years, as it turns out - some are from 2009. 5954 mp3's to be exact. Not bad for a non-music person, I think.

They were in folders in folders in folders in two massive folders on my Google Drive. Most were there twice some 3 and 4 times. They were organized by ... well, actually, they were not organized at all. It was an unholy mess. Some have the song titles as the file names, some don't. When I say mess, I mean it.

When AI first came to my web page, the first thing I ever asked it to do was organize my mp3 files. No Can Do, says AI. I asked again and again every few months and got the same answer. Then, about a year ago, the answer came back, no, but... AI pointed me to some Windows programs and Mac apps that would do the work for me. Thanks, but...

I persisted and today I was rewarded handsomely. Today I asked Gemini again, how the fuck can I get order out of this chaos and BTW the only operating systems at my disposal are android and ChromeOS. Well... this time, the first answer was a recommendation to look at a web tool called FileRev. It rapidly scans whatever drive you tell it to and reports duplicates, empty files, empty folders and all kinds of cool shit.

The free version lets you see how it works and does some stuff but I quickly bought a month of the top tier version and whoa mama! I deleted a million and a half duplicate files. I deleted 256 empty folders - how the hell did I get so many empty folders???

But then I drilled down on the mp3's. They were so nested into many layers of folders. With jpgs and pdfs of album covers and other junk. I got everything cleaned out and the extra files and empty folders gone but still then had 4,500 + mp3 files that needed to be collected out of their folders and into one big folder. I'm about 75% done.

Then I will copy them all onto an external drive just for safety. I keep about a couple dozen on my player and swap them out for different ones when the player comes in for recharging. Now I have a way bigger, easier to access, pile to pick from. Woot!!
Thursday, December 18th, 2025 04:09 pm
As we all know - or anyway, as most of us know - words are capitalized like names if they're used like names and titles.

This most commonly applies to kinship terms, of course - "I gave a present to my mom" versus "When she opened her present, Mom cried" and "I have an uncle who is a firefighter" versus "You're a firefighter, aren't you, Uncle John?"

But there's a few people in the comments asserting that they've never seen this before, they would've been marked down at school, and so on.

It does boggle my mind somewhat that they, I guess, never read fiction in which people have parents, or else don't pay much attention when they do read, but I suppose not everybody is lucky enough to have been raised by a proofreader. However, what I'm posting about is that it's surprisingly difficult to find an authoritative source on this subject online.

The MW and Cambridge dictionary entries only cover this in the briefest way, without an explanatory note. I can't find a usage note by looking elsewhere at MW. I see people asserting that the AP and Chicago styles require this - but I can't actually access that, and searches on their respective websites go nowhere.

I can find lots of casual blogs and such discussing this in detail, but understandably people who think they already know are reluctant to accept correction from random sources like that. Can't quite blame them, though they're still very wrong. Or, I mean to say, they're out of step with the norms of Standard English orthography.

Does anybody have any source that's likely to be accepted? I don't even care about telling that handful of people at this point, I'm just annoyed at my inability to find a link on my own.