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November 12th, 2011

kyrielle: painterly drawing of a white woman with large dark-blue-framed glasses, hazel eyes, brown hair, and a suspicious lack of blemishes (Default)
Saturday, November 12th, 2011 01:02 pm
Today: take the cars down and get the car seats inspected. (Drew's had to be moved out of center position to side, and Ian's placed on the other side.) My car had already had the seats placed; Drew rode in Scott's car, where his seat was in its prior spot, with the intent that Scott would move the seats when we got there.

Clinic started at 9. We arrived about 9:10 or 9:15. As soon as I saw the number of cars, I knew we were going to be there even longer than I've expected. Scott was more surprised than I was; I haven't gone to a clinic before, only gone and had it done at Segal's (a lovely local store, now closed, that did a LOT of inspections/installations, by way of drawing people with kids into their store; we bought the Britax seats Drew uses there).

Scott shifted the seats in his car, then sighed and acknowledged that Ian's car seat base was going to take a noodle to do properly - and we hadn't one with us. Hopefully they'd have one, if not, at least Drew's seat could be inspected and confirmed. As it happened, they did have them - good, as to get Ian's seat *ideally* angled (as opposed to 'okay' angled but not ideal for a newborn) in my car *also* needed a noodle.

The inspector was impressed with the Britax installations, though. Not just correct - when you test side-to-side movement along the bottom back line, it's not supposed to be more than one inch - Scott, having put that seat in MOST firmly, had achieved something closer to 1/16 of an inch of movement. I was amused. It probably owes something to the fact that if I can feel it move much, I worry - Scott installed it to "soothe Laura" specs! :) Hehe.

It was 10:50 when we got out, all car seats properly installed and ready to go. (We still need to check on side airbags, though, in Scott's car, as far as Ian's seat in particular. [Edited to add: side curtain airbags in the back only, up at head height; manual indicates no concern.] Mine hasn't got them, so they are not a risk.)

From there, we took a VERY restless VERY hungry Drew to Olive Garden and had a lovely early lunch. I wish I could always get a waitress as good as the one we had this time (and yes, we tipped accordingly, she was EXCELLENT). I had soup and salad, because it's what I was in the mood for and their soup is tasty. They nicely gave me oil and vinegar (which I ignored) with my salad instead of the usual dressing, as I'm now avoiding almost all dairy. I did take a pill and have some of the garlic breadsticks, though. Small amounts of butter are worth it.

(Why am I avoiding almost all dairy? Because I've hit the part of pregnancy, finally, where the 'right' number of pills is almost impossible to guess for any significant amount of dairy. Alas.)

From there, Scott and Drew went for a short walk and then headed home (hoping Drew would fall asleep and nap, which did not in fact happen, though he's now playing quietly and resting a bit), and I went to the library (to pick up held books) and bank (just before they closed, but I got the paper I needed out of the box, yay!). I was very amused, given our differing errands, to literally pull into the driveway right behind him (close enough that I watched him turn in, never mind close enough that his car was still on when I did).

They were quick errands. And everything got done. Well, shopping's still on the list, but it was an "after-nap" part of the list anyway, so.
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Saturday, November 12th, 2011 04:23 pm
It's not that I don't agree with the woman who maintains it or her points of view in general. It IS that she emphasizes the most extreme, ridiculous ways modern society (modern America, mostly) hampers our kids from growing.

And far, far more, it IS the comments. The people who are appalled that parents treat their kids as competent human beings (oh noes!) and tailor what they let the kiddos do to their actual capabilities / development. The people who are sanctimonious at everyone who is nervous about same, or about society's reaction to same.

The Perfect Moms who think that, you know, they are All That and we oughta do it their way.

The working (out of the home) moms who don't understand the social interests/needs of the stay-at-home moms and work-from-home moms. The SAHM/WFHM who don't understand, nor care to understand, the limited schedules of the ones working out of the home.

And on and on.

This gem from today really had me irritated (and it's from someone who does, I notice, tend to have that effect on me): "I want my kids to be popular and have lots of friends and party invites and the way I do that is by buddying up to the moms and I get new friends too."

...wow. You know, not every kid even WANTS lots of friends/party invites. Some people only want one or a few close friends. Some people want depth. Maybe her kids want that. Maybe not. But I also boggle that she thinks she ought to provide it. Is she going to follow them to college and try to find them friends by networking with the other mothers who follow their kids to college? Oh, wait....