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(And yes, I know it isn't common. Alas.)
A post from Neil Gaiman's journal includes a letter sent to him and his public reply. I share the letter here:
My 12-year old daughter chose Stardust for a school book report. We purchased it in paperback at Barnes and Noble. From the packaging, it looked like an appropriate fantasy story for her age and her 6th grade teacher approved it. We were very offended to find that it had an explicit sex scene and the word "fuck" in it. The marketing of this book was misleading. Were you intending to mislead children into reading it? Why would you do this?
And my responses:
1) Since when is cover and marketing something the author controls? In most cases, as I understand it, really it's not. Talk to the publisher.
2) I have never seen Stardust listed as a children's book, only YA and adult fantasy. (And based on Neil's post, that's all it ever has been classed as.) If you do not want your daughter exposed to such things, young adult is not really the best choice. Trust me, for YA, this is mild.
3) Speaking of which, if you are so worried about what she reads, how come you don't read it first?
4) By the way, do you really think she hasn't heard that word?
5) ...also, do you let her watch prime time TV? 'Cause if so, kinda silly to pick on the book.
6) Oh, and, no comment about the violence? I realize this is a cultural thing rather than an individual, but our priorities regarding sex and violence are so fucked up. (Yes, ma'am, I did use that word. You aren't letting your daughter read this, are you?)
It may be that the 12-year-old is not ready to deal with things like that, though in our society it would surprise me, and it's certainly the parent's right to not want them to be exposed. But, if they exercise that right, it is also their responsibility to review possible sources of exposure and stop them if possible. (Again, in our society, good luck!)
Also there is this post which is the syndicated copy of the entry on LJ, and which has comments from others as well.
A post from Neil Gaiman's journal includes a letter sent to him and his public reply. I share the letter here:
My 12-year old daughter chose Stardust for a school book report. We purchased it in paperback at Barnes and Noble. From the packaging, it looked like an appropriate fantasy story for her age and her 6th grade teacher approved it. We were very offended to find that it had an explicit sex scene and the word "fuck" in it. The marketing of this book was misleading. Were you intending to mislead children into reading it? Why would you do this?
And my responses:
1) Since when is cover and marketing something the author controls? In most cases, as I understand it, really it's not. Talk to the publisher.
2) I have never seen Stardust listed as a children's book, only YA and adult fantasy. (And based on Neil's post, that's all it ever has been classed as.) If you do not want your daughter exposed to such things, young adult is not really the best choice. Trust me, for YA, this is mild.
3) Speaking of which, if you are so worried about what she reads, how come you don't read it first?
4) By the way, do you really think she hasn't heard that word?
5) ...also, do you let her watch prime time TV? 'Cause if so, kinda silly to pick on the book.
6) Oh, and, no comment about the violence? I realize this is a cultural thing rather than an individual, but our priorities regarding sex and violence are so fucked up. (Yes, ma'am, I did use that word. You aren't letting your daughter read this, are you?)
It may be that the 12-year-old is not ready to deal with things like that, though in our society it would surprise me, and it's certainly the parent's right to not want them to be exposed. But, if they exercise that right, it is also their responsibility to review possible sources of exposure and stop them if possible. (Again, in our society, good luck!)
Also there is this post which is the syndicated copy of the entry on LJ, and which has comments from others as well.
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The act of love between two people: HORRIFYINGLY INCOMPRHENSIBLE!
Yes, those are messed up priorities. I think I sprained my eyes from rolilng them too hard at this parent.
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