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Thursday, February 8th, 2007 06:38 pm
Today, my order of all three seasons of the original Star Trek arrived.

Today, I picked up the CDs with the scans of slides/negatives (mine and my parents' photos). As well as the slides and negatives, of course.

Yeah, guess who is not watching the DVDs tonight? You got that right. I've looked already at two of the three CDs done from the slides (those will take the least work to get ready for upload since no cropping is needed), and am very, very pleased. So maybe, just maybe I will get some of those up tonight. Maybe I won't. I may just be browsing through them and enjoying the memories...but I have them. GLEE!
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Sunday, January 28th, 2007 02:36 pm
The computer room is still fairly messy but we've opened the door to the cats after getting a few key items off the floor and out of the way. They know how to deal with messy anyway, I just don't want anything precious and easily destroyed down there....

Basta was on my lap drooling madly but eventually hopped down because I lean forward too far to be a comfortable lap when typing on the laptop. She skidded in the pile of detritus at my feet and I promptly felt guilty.... Babe has just been quietly exploring corners and now Basta is joining her.

I'm worried I may have missed something I'll regret later on the floor. But Mom's recipe box, all the photos, the electronic stuff for the camera - all have been moved either up or into the bedroom (temporarily) since they don't go there.

We very badly need to get rid of some clutter. We have needed this since before we moved to this house, and still we have the clutter. Problem is it takes time and effort to get rid of it, shuffling it around is faster...argh!

And I miss my parents terribly. It still doesn't seem entirely believable or real that they are both dead, and have been for over a month, even though I know it is so. In some ways I think the first weeks were easier, as far as not having to juggle practical matters at the same time - or not as many. They were much harder in other ways but I do not think I will have many 'easy' weeks for a while yet, emotionally. Times, yes, but not whole weeks yet. Please understand that if I'm not constantly bemoaning it here, this is at least in part because it would be repetitive - and in part because doing so too much seems to make it worse, without actually providing any more ease when the particular storm is past.
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Thursday, January 25th, 2007 06:50 pm
First, the photo. Not real thrilled with it - just a silhouetted tree against the sky (and free product placement for the bank next to the tree, go figure). But a photo...I tried.

Second, a funny. Talk about a badly-designed system! No, no, you can't have twins, sir!

Finally, the whining )
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Wednesday, January 24th, 2007 06:53 pm
Mom's cousin (and mine!) Beth sent an email with a funny memory from when they were young. I share it below the cut )
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Monday, January 22nd, 2007 08:38 pm
We had neighbors who lived up the road much of the time I was growing up, and they sent a letter of sympathy when they got the news (which I sent them) that Mom and Dad had passed away. I'm quoting the letter because they also sent memories (although I am omitting the contact info that they gave me, since this is a public post :). I wasn't there for the one and I don't recall the other, but they both made me smile.

I wonder whether that's the party where he lost his wallet, which was at the vineyard and the same year (in September). It seems likely, except the descriptions don't seem to fit (although neither is very detailed; they could be the same party). I will never know for sure, I suppose, but this is a sweet memory; I can envision Dad there, having a good time and pointing out constellations.

The text of the note, minus the signature block )
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Sunday, January 21st, 2007 11:18 pm
Went out to my parents' house and Scott helped with lifting and moving so I could access some of the trunks (some: others are in places that are going to need some real clearing to get to, and knowing what was in the ones we did get to, I can wait). Most contained camping gear. One contained old fabrics, looking to be in good shape. I didn't recognize them, or take them out to see what they were, much. At some point I will need to take them out, store them elsewhere, get photos to see if any of my relatives recognize them from anywhere....

I took a lot of photos of Newberg as well as some inside the house. I am still uploading those photos (and I have no intent of staying up until they complete!) but the ones that have made it up are at http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/archives/date-posted/2007/01/21/ and the rest will follow for a total of 23 (looks like 13 have made it as I type this). I'd expect them all up by 1 or 2 am Pacific at the latest, so if you're reading this after that, they probably made it there. (It may be worth viewing the individual photos to see my notes, if you're curious about my memories. A couple are just photos of something I saw but a lot have memories attached and I wrote them up in the photo description.)

Went through the top part of the mementos/photos box I found on Friday. I am beside myself with glee: many many of Dad's photos (including old ones on slide - I shall definitely need to look into what's involved scanning slides!). I haven't made it to the bottom of the box yet. I am hoping it will have Kathryn's baby book, as I've seen it only once in my life that I can recall, and it was then occupying the old metal desk that Dad consigned to the dump later. I assume the baby book was not sent with it, of course, but I've no idea where it did end up. In one of these boxes seems probable, but there are a lot of boxes.

We won money in the Powerball drawing on Saturday. Of course, we did not win enough money to pay for the ticket. Oh well! Not like I really expected any different. Well, okay, I did - I expected not to win anything at all. ;) So almost covering the cost of the ticket in the first place is not too bad, overall.

I still have to work on the legal bits of this. Ugh. Estimating the value of their personal possessions is my current demon. Not from having to go through the things - there's a comfort in the memories they evoke. But for one main reason, and one minor secondary. The secondary is that it reduces them to a dollar amount, but really, that's what legal stuff and economic stuff does. Memories don't quantify that way (probably just as well). The major is that I simply have no clue how to get an appropriate value. They said it needs to be estimated / approximate, but I don't even know enough to get near on some of it, and it's making me very twitchy and unhappy. I can't estimate it. I don't have the skills or knowledge to be confident I'd even be within an order of magnitude of the actual value. And it's driving me buggy. (That has to be done by the end of February, basically. And I need to get a realtor out to see what they think the fair market value of the house would be, for purposes of confirming (or not) the tax value listing for use in this process. That, however, is not so bad - it's just a scheduling issue. I can handle those. It's the rest of it, which I feel like I am basically being told to make up a random number for a legal process - not my favorite idea ever! - that has me stressed. Worse, even the stuff I know the value on, I know the value new - not now. Argh!)

I am also beginning to be overwhelmed by the realization of how much stuff there is to go through, but it's not as bad as it could be. I just am beginning to think I may (when it gets a little easier) need another week off work just to do that. Now that I can maybe face it for more than 15 minutes at a time without wanting to start crying. There's a certain comfort in some of these - the memories they bring back! Also a lot of stress as I realize...I have all this stuff to deal with. Argh. At least the house has a heat pump. I am ever so very grateful for that. It was not that long ago that it had only the woodstove. I would have had little choice but to live there during the cold snap and try to keep the house warm enough to preserve the pipes, if not for that heat pump. (And it made things more comfortable for Mom during her illness. Although not for Dad, since Mom and Dad's favored temperature ranges sat a few degrees apart even at their closest match. He got to live in a 74-degree house for that time. After she died, he turned it down to 68 or 70 - I forget which - and immediately felt too cold; he'd adapted! So he moved it back up and then began stepping down by 1 degree, at least I think that was the plan.)

And it's really fairly late and I should go to bed. 15 of the photos are now up!
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Saturday, January 20th, 2007 11:34 pm
Yesterday I took the afternoon to run errands to Newberg (insurance, and other stuff), Carlton (picking up Basta's arthritis shots), and my parents' house (getting the mail and just checking on things - all looks fine - also I found a box labeled as photos and mementos plus some other stuff, which I brought back - have yet to go through them other than the very top layer, tho'). While I was in Newberg I took a few photos. I'd intended to take more but hadn't realized I'd forgot to put the memory card back in the camera. It actually does have an internal storage area but that won't hold many photos, so my session was cut short! Maybe I will get more tomorrow, and if not, then later in the year. I really do intend to photograph the things that still hold memories before the town changes even more. Maybe there will be memories in the new ways it changes too, but...I want these images, as much as I can hold on to.

I didn't upload them last night but I am uploading now and I tagged one as yesterday's 1-a-day. I also got some photos today (of the Tigard library, which is lovely) and am uploading those. Today was not quite the break day I anticipated. It's true that I did not work on anything related to the estate or anything, but I was in the office for the morning - and I was also in the office yesterday evening after I got back from Newberg. A bit of a push on something that really couldn't wait. I actually thought that I was going to spend the whole day in the office today, but by about noon I was able to come home after all. So instead I went to the mall, did some shopping (a few new shirts - no pants; I will probably order from Land's End to get ones that fit - hopefully), then went to the library to pick up books on hold. And then after I got home, I did indeed read Terrier from cover to cover. I quite enjoyed it although at the very beginning I was wincing, because of the fonts used on the "prequel" chapters. They are not easy to read! Dad would not have liked them, I think, I remember he objected to one book or another because of the fonts changing constantly. But the main book was in quite a readable font. (If it weren't for the fonts, I wouldn't think of Dad in this context - I doubt I'd have recommended this book to him, as it's not what I'd think of him reading anyway....) I enjoyed it, though not as much as some of her other stories. I found the first-person journaling mode a bit hard to get into at first, until I got used to it.

At one point, I was sprawled on a mat in the hallway reading, so that I could be with the cats. Basta curled up next to me. Babe curled up on my back, occupying most of the space from the small of my back up to my shoulder-blades. Twelve pounds of cat on your back is not "I can't breathe" territory at all, but it is very noticeable. And oddly comfortable and comforting. I cannot imagine how Mom managed to be so relatively calm about twelve or fourteen pounds of cat against her head while wearing curlers with the metal wire bits, however....

Yesterday's and today's photos WILL BE at http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/archives/date-posted/2007/01/20/ - as I post this, only one is up. There will be 10 when it is done, five from Newberg and five of the Tigard library.

A lot of memories in the photos I uploaded today (some of which were taken yesterday). For example, the Cameo theater in Newberg. I never once saw a movie in that theater - it was adults-only when I was young. But we drove past it many times and it reminds me of the theater we did go to, a couple blocks down the street, where I saw many movies (most of which I have now forgotten, and I could no longer say with any certainty what ones I saw there versus elsewhere). I also watched movies at the drive-in theater (which is still there, out by Fred Meyer's - it predates FM but is still there - although now they have an indoor theater or two also, which they didn't used to). A speaker hooked over the door of your car, a big screen - good memories. We also used to go to the Westgate (over in Beaverton, I believe) some of the time, but I can't even visualize it. Of course, I didn't get to go past it so much as the other two, when not actually going to the movies!

Attempted to Freecycle a desk, but it wasn't picked up at the stated time. Have emailed to see what's up with that....

I didn't quite get the relaxing day I'd envisioned, but perhaps Scott and I can still play World of Warcraft tomorrow before we head out to the Ridge again, and I did get to read the book I'd planned to read. Reading it was fun, and oddly hard, because now and then I'd be struck by the blues in the middle of a fantasy story where they had no place. I've been down yesterday and today - I think because the breathing space I've been allowing myself in taking care of myself wasn't there, those days. Ah well. It will be tomorrow, and then hopefully next weekend.

I'm on call next week (backup) and the week after (primary). For the week I'm on primary, my backup is going to take a several-hour period one weekend day so that I can go out to the house and take care of things, so that's dealt with. I'm not looking forward to it, though. I am still stressed and upset - two weeks on call to go with this is not really my idea of fun. But it is necessary, and re-shuffling it would not be easy. After that I am not on call for a while, and next week should be pretty mild since it is the backup phone. I hope.

For now, it seems to be 11:30 and I should be in bed.
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Tuesday, January 16th, 2007 07:54 am
It is really pretty out there. There's snow in some areas, freezing rain in others. My 'easy' route to Newberg goes through Sherwood and Tualatin. The school districts in both have closed for the day. So has the school district where work is, the school district where I live, Newberg school district (which would be on snow routes if it was only bad up at the elevation of my parents' house - closed means it's bad down near the city, too), and everything in the vicinity of the town where I need to pick up Basta's shots appears to be closed too.

High in the mid-30s. I seriously doubt it will thaw out enough to go to most of the places I planned. There is a chance that mid-afternoon I can get to Newberg, and if it looks good I will, but only if it looks good. Otherwise I'll skip that and just do the local stuff. Snow day. I get to take photographs and play World of Warcraft (a lot of the to-do list can be done from home, but not so much that I won't get to play).

The road reports for the freeways don't actually look that bad but in this weather, if I didn't have the day off, I would work from home and not go into work because of the side streets. I'm pretty sure that means that going to Newberg (which, although I can do it almost entirely on highway/freeway, means going over Rex Hill at about ) is a bad idea. Oh, wow. Okay, the traffic reports online show no major issues. The verbal one on the radio tells me that the steady-no-accidents is steady at about 10 miles per hour. I don't think the freeway is in good shape either!

When I first saw it, my heart ached. This weather killed my Dad. It's hard to see. And then it hit me - first, I've always loved snow. Second, from the way he photographed it, either he loved it or he loved other people's love of it. And third, this didn't kill him. If the weather had been like this, he would probably not have gone, or would have gone with chains on very cautiously. Bad luck and borderline weather did, but not this.

I wish he could see it - I hope he can, from somewhere. I think he might like it, and if he didn't, I think he'd enjoy my love of it.

Scott called when he got to work to tell me that he was there safe (we normally email for that, smart man, as I would've called if I'd not had anything by not long after he called!), and also to tell me I probably didn't want to go anywhere today. I think he's right, unless the afternoon really does a number. (Though if it melts the snow and the roads are safe, I might dare to go to the library, locally.)

Happy birthday to me, I get a snow day!
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Monday, January 15th, 2007 01:37 pm
Tomorrow is my birthday. I will be 32. I will be going, at midnight, to a local store to pick up the Burning Crusade expansion for World of Warcraft, so I can let it patch to its heart's content while I sleep. In the morning, I might even get to play it briefly. Then I will be out for most of the rest of the day, taking advantage of the paperwork I got on Friday to get my parents' mail forwarded to me, to get the shots that Basta needs for her arthritis, to check on things at my parents' house, to stop in at a couple places and let them take photocopies of the paperwork, and all that. Not quite how I envisioned spending my birthday this year, obviously. But I am looking forward to the game expansion. And forward/backward to more memories like finding those letters Mom wrote.

For now, more phone calls. When I get the items I have marked on my list done, I am going to take a break and play WoW for a little while, I think. (Cingular? Cingular wins lots and lots of points over the last two months for being kind, helpful, and friendly. Even when I wasn't being at all calm or cheerful, in the case of the SIM card mess when we first got the phones.)
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Sunday, January 14th, 2007 09:36 pm
First, my one-a-day shot today is of Basta: http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/357857146/ (bonus shot of Babe: http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/357857152/ - couldn't leave her out, after all!).

In addition, some photos of my Dad from his undergrad days at Rutgers, courtesy of Ray Powell (and with his kind permission), are up at http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/tags/fromraypowell/ - and Denise Kamath sent a couple photos, one with Dad in the background, one of Mom and Dad, from her wedding - those are at http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/tags/fromdenisekamath/

I haven't uploaded anything more from Dad's photos today, though.
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Sunday, January 14th, 2007 07:06 pm
Edited to add: If you read and you find funny or interesting, do feel free to comment. Also, if you click the thumbnail and the next image is too small to read, clicking that image will take you to a still higher-resolution image that should be readable.

Okay, first, my apologies for the format. I don't have a scan-to-text thingy, and in any case I wanted to preserve the handwriting where there are notes. These are scans of letters my Mom wrote, you'll need to click thru each page to read them unfortunately. The first two letters are to Ford Motor Company, about the lemon of a car that was our Escort (made worse by shoddy service). As far as I know, this is not normal for Ford. It sure was memorable, though - memorable enough that Mom refused to own another Ford. I don't think Dad felt as strongly, but he never got one, for her sake. (Scott and I have owned two Fords. He had to push me into the first one, and if it hadn't been for the crappy credit of just-graduated college students restricting our options, I still wouldn't have given in. But our two worked just fine.)

I am SO VERY GLAD to have found the Ford letters. Dad thought Mom's letters to Ford were gone, when I asked him sometime around the time of her death (not sure if it was before or after she actually passed away, but sometime in those weeks between her diagnosis and his death, I know I asked him, and he thought the letter was gone). It had been typed up in WordPerfect (I believe) in 1989 and after several switches of computer, of course it was almost certainly lost, especially since her most recent computer was failing and he was having trouble getting data off it. That may be the case, but the printed drafts (with some hand-noted corrections) had been stored in a file folder which I found. I've been giggling as I reread the letters while scanning them.... Mom was just a touch unhappy with this car and the service. Actually, we all were. It was good for hysterical laughter, at times, but really.

The first letter, detailing the harrowing experience of our Escort:

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The second letter, wherein she took Ford to task for continuing to send recall notices for a car we'd sold (this one is worth reading just for the humor of what some of the recalls were - that was NOT a great car!):

Mother's second letter to Ford about the Escort Mother's second letter to Ford about the Escort Mother's second letter to Ford about the Escort

And a third letter, not related to the car, but instead having to do with a fun little experience that Mom had volunteering to help with a mailing at Valley Catholic, where I went to high school (disclaimer: this is a good school and I'm glad I went, and for the most part it was great - this was just One Of Thooooose Moments):

Mother's letter to Beth about volunteering Mother's letter to Beth about volunteering Mother's letter to Beth about volunteering Mother's letter to Beth about volunteering
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Friday, January 12th, 2007 10:43 pm
First, the photo - my one a day is of a street in Newberg. http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/355533945/

I worked until noon today - got everything done that I needed to. Then, with my boss's okay, I took off, because yesterday I'd gotten the paperwork needed to establish the estate account. I did that today. I haven't paid the bills yet, but I now can, which is a vast improvement. That will likely be a task for this weekend so that they are all in the mail come Tuesday (my original intent was to have them ready for tomorrow but after running around all day, I needed down-time badly).

Highlights: arriving at the bank to open the estate account, only to discover that among the many papers I had brought, the tax id sheet wasn't one of them. (Good thing the bank in question was in Wilsonville, and thus I could easily dart home and collect the necessary paper. Sheesh.) At two of the three banks I had to deal with, people who were most apologetic about having to look up how to handle accounts of deceased persons and their representative, and how to do everything by the book. Every time, I said I didn't mind. I'd be more upset if they had to do this on such a regular basis that they knew it all by heart, and a little delay wasn't making it any harder. The girl at one bank was very flustered and called the Letters Testimentary a "letter from the lawyer" at first when calling someone for more info on what I could and couldn't do and be told. Fortunately, that was easily straightened out. Everyone was really very helpful, even if some people were a bit disoriented.

I went to a branch of one bank in Beaverton on Nimbus Avenue. I either didn't know, or had forgotten, that there was some sort of body of water back there. Not surprising - I've been down Nimbus only once before, for a bead and gem show, years ago - at least that's the only time I can recall. I usually drive past. But now I want to go back and see if there's any public parking and what the water is like viewed close (instead of observed across an office building's parking lot while driving). However, I didn't want to see it badly enough not to get out to my parents' house - and I wanted to do that before dark, so I could see the road conditions clearly.

Mail retrieved. I still need to handle forwarding it - unfortunately, the last of the three banks needed original copies of the death certificates and I had only brought one set, and forgot about the mail until I handed them over. I'll straighten the mail delivery out next week. (In theory, I could go to my local post office tomorrow and request forwarding. Having made the mistake, in the past, of requesting forwarding from somewhere other than the post office that delivers, I think I won't do that. Perhaps it would now work properly, but this is not the circumstance in which I want to find out it didn't.)

Our neighbors / their neighbors are surely nice people. One in particular has been watching the house for me. I called him earlier this week and expressed concern about a couple outside pipes that weren't insulated well enough - Dad had been aware of them and meant to insulate them but hadn't got to it. He went over, got some insulation from the shop, and insulated them. It's not pretty but it surely seems to be sufficient to the weather and that, really, is all I care about. All the same, I made sure there was still water running a bit in the house. I don't need cracked pipes to deal with. (The hose did split. I should have drained it, but I didn't. That's my bad. At least he had unhooked the hose from the faucet, and I think only one part of its length split. But if I have to replace the hose, a big fat 'oh well'. Compared to, say, having to replace water-damaged heaven-knows-what and piping from the well to the tank in the shop, which would NOT be fun. Hoses are easy.)

The feral cats' water hasn't frozen. There's plenty of food out for them in the cold spell. It's going down slower - I think some of them have moved on. Or passed away, but I'm hoping they've moved on. There may be neighbors home all the time who also put food out, and if so, they'd have migrated that way. I refilled the bird feeders. They were conspicuously absent when I arrived. They were very NOT-absent as soon as the feeders were filled, though.

Anyway, it wasn't a very photograph-ish day. I tried to get some other shots but only a few and they didn't come out well. Mostly I was just racing around trying to get as much done as I could before the holiday weekend, so I'd be well-set to do stuff over the holiday weekend.

And then I came home and played with the kitties and did Kakuro and read stuff online because, well, that's what I was up for. Oh, and laundry. Because tomorrow we are going to visit Uncle Jim and Aunt Betty, and I do not think I wish to appear in any of the outfits I could have constructed from what remained clean. (They involve skirts, which I am not always comfortable in, which mostly lack pockets, and which most importantly of all are lousy protection from frigid winds.) Clean laundry is a good thing.

Anyway, I sleep now. Well, soon; if I slept now, I'd fall out of this chair and probably land on some of the clutter around it and I imagine that'd hurt. I think I'll pass on that!
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Thursday, January 11th, 2007 09:48 pm
Everyone keeps saying I'm strong. I keep wanting to protest that I'm not. I think this is like my calling Dad "stoic" as Mom was dying and then when she passed away, and him saying he wasn't, he was just numb. There's some truth in both views. What I choose to put here doesn't include everything - there is no use (and some harm) in drawing myself back through moments of upset in order to document them, I think. Getting on with life is more useful, and I think is what my parents would have wanted. That's not to say I'm not grieving, hurting, sometimes barely able to cope, sometimes crying into cat fur or whatever else is handy. I am; I'm not denying the feelings. I'm just also trying not to make them worse or dwell in them as though they were an end to themselves. I'll chance such moods in order to get things done that I need to or want to, but that's different than wallowing in them. At least, I hope it is; it seems to be more useful.
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Thursday, January 11th, 2007 09:45 pm
Two pictures of Babe playing last night:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/354477260/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/354477269/

Today's photo-a-day is a quick snapshot of something that arrived in the mail today - my imp's ears from BPAL. Frankly, I don't actually care very much. A month ago, I'd have been glad to see them, give or take a day. Today? Um. I'll enjoy them some other time. I'm not in the mood to play with smellies, nor to taunt my allergies at all, and I'm too upset to fuss through them. Plus I have to go back and look at the notes for each one before I'll know which to try first when I am in the mood anyway. Anyway, the photo: http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/354504588/

Uploaded a bunch more of Dad's photos, this time of the maples coming down (and a couple of cats). They are still uploading as I post this, there are 11 to go, so if you see this real soon after it goes up you may miss some. But I'm off to bed, so posting now. Go to http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/archives/date-posted/2007/01/11/ to see them (and the three photos linked above, but such is life). (I am putting comments on photos so it may be worth reading some of them, though the 'maple down' batch of 15 has the same comment repeated, except for two that have additional commentary right at the front.)

Also in today's mail, I got the paperwork officially saying I'm the personal representative for the estate. So I need to get a number of things done tomorrow so that I have an account to pay their bills from, and so on. Bleh. Well, no, seriously, bleh. Now I have two months to work out what the value of everything was at the time of my Dad's death. And I don't want to, because I still want to go back in time and somehow save him. I know. Irrational. But it's easy to face the day-to-day necessities and hard to face the probate-related ones. (Some days, it's easy to face the 'memory' aspects - and others it's not. I try to do memories and photo uploads of Dad's stuff and so on when I'm up for facing them. Alas, I really need to deal with the legalities whether I'm ready or not.) I already warned them I may work only a half-day tomorrow - before I got home and found that yes, the paperwork had arrived. I don't know if the afternoon alone is enough time for me to get enough accounts straightened out to pay the bills and all, but I'll give it a shot. Meh.

More fun playing with Babe and Basta tonight. Basta is mostly a cuddle-bug but will sometimes play lazily (hard to believe this is the same mighty huntress who would try to catch birds on the wing when she was a young cat - and who was very good at catching birds not on the wing - even well into 'old age' she did this, but I don't think in the last 5 years or more - after all she IS 20). Babe, on the other hand, will go crazy-kitty, as the earlier photos show. She did again tonight but I didn't have a camera on her this time. Oh well!

Also reread most of The Black Gryphon. Not the most useful way to spend the evening in one sense, but good for de-jangling my nerves, so there's really a lot to be said for that.
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Thursday, January 11th, 2007 08:47 am
Well, I am at work this morning. I was thoroughly nervous, to be honest, with the weather - but the reports said the roads were clear in this area, and the school districts involved weren't doing anything real weird - late or closing or anything - so I came on in. It was a nice clear drive. It is snowing out there now, which is very pretty. It would make me nervous except it is supposed to be warmer and drier this afternoon, so hopefully the drive home will be fine too.

Kind of funny. I'm cautious about driving in weather like this always. And I like to stay home and enjoy the pretty, even if I'm working as I enjoy the pretty (for some reason it feels more 'postcard-ish' to be at home with no drive ahead). Those are normal. But today when the Portland schools closed (they announced it very late, just as I was about to head out the door), I froze in a brief panic. What if? What if? That's not normal. I might have paused and tried to decide whether to come in, but not the momentary freak-out with it.

After I posted the one-a-day photo yesterday, I ended up taking a couple more - I left the computer room and paused in the hallway to pet cats. And noted that Babe was REALLY playful. So started playing with her. And then Scott was playing her and I got the camera and got
some shots. I will have to put those up tonight if they turned out, or at least one of them. It was terribly cute, and rather funny to watch. (She was chasing one of those 'fishing line' like toys with a ball and feather on the end. Next to a scratching post. So there are
these 'paws around the post' pictures and such. Hehe.)

Anyway, back to work. Funny. At the start of the week this was doable, now there's this low-grade ache and dread combination that has nothing to do with work and everything to do with my parents being gone. And in a bit I need to call the neighbor that is helping to watch the
place and ask them to check on it weather-wise, and the outdoor cats. At least I know the outdoor cats have some sheltered areas to get into, and should still have plenty of
food.
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Tuesday, January 9th, 2007 10:20 pm
My one-a-day photo (with story of the photo I wanted to post but we didn't get - though it wouldn't've been a 1-a-day since I wouldn't have taken it): http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/352516674/

Also, a bunch more photos my Dad took - to see those (and my photo) go here: http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/archives/date-posted/2007/01/09/ - these are not QUITE all the ones I was about to upload when the program crashed before, but they are most of them. I've a couple more (fairly neat, IMO - the maple tree coming down!) folders to go before I'm caught up to where I was.

Thank you everyone who gave me hugs and distractions, and if more people want to, they're gladly welcomed. For now, though, I am off to bed. Because it's LATE.
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Monday, January 8th, 2007 10:24 pm
I finally uploaded a few photos I had in queue from the ones my parents (mostly Dad, probably) took. I also uploaded a one-a-day photo of the top of my bookshelf. Not really exciting, just a last-minute attempt to have a photo. (I could have gotten a great shot of Babe about 15 minutes later but the camera was nowhere near. Oops!)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/kyrielle/archives/date-posted/2007/01/08/

Today was the first full day back at work - went fine, got stuff done. Also got my allergy shots for the first time in over a month. I thought I was just barely under a month, but I wasn't, I was over. Oh well. It was not that important, they'll step back up. No reactions this time, thank goodness.

Spent a lot of time doing I'm-not-sure-what and not getting much done. Well, no, also spent over an hour on the phone with my aunt, which was a LOVELY conversation. I should have reconnected with my family years ago.... Ah, well. I can feel bad for missed opportunities or I can be grateful for the ones I have now - or I suppose I can do both and probably will. Right now I am more on the 'grateful' side, though.

The cats were allowed to be loose overnight last night and all day today and are still coping well despite our not monitoring, so they will only get shut up now for 'people coming in and out' sort of situations, methinks.

And now I go to bed, as I'd like to be functional in the morning. Lack of sleep is not good for that.
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Saturday, January 6th, 2007 09:43 am
I'm also trying to figure out what to do with some of the things sent as condolences. Cut flowers are easy - keep them, then discard, as appropriate. Food baskets are easy - eat them or, if too many (trust me, we had tons of fruit), pass some of them on. But the live plants...those are harder. Some are quite pretty, but at the same time, do I want them around to remind me of when and why I got them? (Some of those are easy too. If they're not pretty enough to me and are potentially poisonous to the cats, they find a new home. I'm still trying to figure out what to do with the two that I like, though.)

As far as my parents' plants, I expect we'll keep the Christmas cacti, but not the other that I asked what it was. The berries can be poisonous to cats, and while that's not major (I doubt they'd eat them and we could work to prevent them from being there at all), I don't find it a terribly pretty plant either. It's a weed in Florida - and it looks rather weedy to me, I'm afraid. Still, I'm not entirely sure. If we don't keep it, I'll make sure it has a home if I can - I hate to just toss a living thing, even a plant.

Which sparked some memories )

Okay, off for now. Starting the WoW patch.
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Sunday, December 31st, 2006 04:14 pm
My version of it, tweaked still a bit more based on theirs. Hopefully I don't have too many errors - it astonishes me to realize what I had to look up and ask about because I didn't know, even though I know so much about what wonderful people they were.

Behind a cut - two photos also. )
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Saturday, August 25th, 2001 05:52 pm
My dad and I exchange emails each week describing the week before - we keep notes during the week for this purpose. He is a very humorous writer and has an eye for the funny things in life. Some things in his email from last week (as I reread it):


1.

On the way home, I came up behind a rather beat-up pickup. It had a couple of fairly large chain saws in the back. Along with a bumper sticker in its rear window that read "Earth First!" Ok, this is a little strange: an Earth First logger. I can think of stranger combinations, but I really have to work at it. Then he stopped at a light and I came up behind him and got to read the entire bumper sticker:

Earth First!

We can log the other planets later.

I would think he would want to be careful where he parks that pickup. :-)



2.

Looking at some network tools, I ran across a package called "Ethereal" which is a packet sniffer program. But the headline on their web page really caught my eye:
"Sniffing the glue that holds the Internet together"




Just wanted to share those...I thought they were cute...I love getting my dad's emails.